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Will The Relationship Still Work?

June 3rd, 2008

Before considering how to get your ex boyfriend back, its important to think about the reasons he dumped you in the first place. First, ask yourself about what he said to you while he was breaking up with you; did he give you specific reasons for ending the relationship? If your ex-boyfriend has broken up with you by stating something along the lines of: “You’re too clingy,” or “We just don’t have chemistry,” it shouldn’t be that hard to figure out why he dumped you. However, if the relationship just seemed to fizzle, with no real break-up or explanation, its only fair to ask him what happened. If you can’t talk to your ex-boyfriend without screaming and bursting into tears, then talking to him at all, probably isn’t a good idea. When confronting your ex-boyfriend about why he dumped you, be forewarned, you probably won’t like what your going to hear, but hey, the truth hurts! If your ex-boyfriend does gives you a specific reason for breaking up with you like: “I hate it when you call me 10 times a night when I’m out with the guys because it makes me feel like you don’t trust me,” put yourself in his shoes. Don’t try to get your ex-boyfriend back; if he doesn’t think the relationship will work, chances are he’s right.

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